vaginas are the coolest.
My therapist gave me a useful metaphor: getting “better” when dealing with a chronic condition (specifically anxiety) is like easing into a pool of cold water. At first the shock of it is unbearable; it’s only in retrospect that you can’t imagine being shocked by the temperature. There are hurdles — up to the waist, up the chest, dunking the head under — but you move in, little by little, until you can’t remember what it was like to think of the water as a formidable barrier. You’re just in it, and you can’t imagine what it was like NOT to be in it.
Let’s just talk about how I regularly use your therapist’s metaphor (“easing into a pool of cold water”) when discussing anxiety which I’m really taking as a sign that I should be a therapist. Also, keep up the good work. We all have beaches we have to baby step along.
so many emotions.
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"Take a day to heal from the lies you’ve told yourself and the ones that have been told to you."
— Maya Angelou (via first-third)
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LOTS OF LOUD FEELINGS IN SONG FORM.
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I appreciate that there was a time when pop music videos had celebrity guests (i.e. Robin Williams, Chevy Chase, Steve Gutenberg, Eddie Murphy) and the celebrities were just smokin’ hot babes (i.e. any lead in an Enrique Iglesias video from the 90s). I haven’t had much time to catch up on top 40 music videos as I use Spotify to just check out what’s new, but I’d like to make an effort to see where music videos are going. I have noticed more ‘experimental’ videos (i.e. Basement Jaxx new video which really just reminds me of any きゃりーぱみゅぱみゅ video), but I kinda hope music videos start to incorporate celebrities in this style again. Ke$ha had a shitty attempt at it with her Blow video (James Van Der Beek doesn’t seem funny to me at all when the joke is just that he is James Van Der Beek), however I can’t recall anyone as of late that I’m thinking nails the use of celebrities in such a way.
Happy Monday.
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before tumblr i was spending the same amount of time on the computer but i seriously cannot recall what i was doing
word.
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